Lesson 2
Building and Sustaining Trust
Building and Sustaining Trust with the BRAVING Framework

Building and sustaining trust is a cornerstone of effective leadership. Trust creates a solid foundation that enables teams to work cohesively and perform at their best.

The BRAVING framework, developed by Brené Brown, offers a structured approach to building trust. BRAVING stands for Boundaries, Reliability, Accountability, Vault, Integrity, Non-judgment, and Generosity. Each term represents a crucial element in fostering trust.

Boundaries and Reliability

Establishing clear boundaries and maintaining reliability are essential for building trust. Boundaries define what’s acceptable while reliability ensures consistency in actions and promises. When you respect others' boundaries and consistently deliver on commitments, you build a reputation of trustworthiness. For example, consistently sticking to deadlines or providing candid, respectful feedback exemplifies reliability.

  • Boundaries involve setting clear limits, like saying, "I need to finish this report by 5 PM, so I can't take on new tasks right now."
  • Reliability is about consistently doing what you say you will, such as, "I'll review your proposal by Friday."
Accountability, Vault, and Integrity

Accountability involves owning your actions and their outcomes, whether they are positive or negative. Leaders who hold themselves and others accountable reinforce trust within their teams.

The concept of "Vault" refers to safeguarding confidential information and not engaging in gossip.

Integrity means making decisions that align with ethical standards, even when faced with challenging situations. For instance, transparently disclosing a mistake rather than covering it up demonstrates integrity.

  • Accountability requires owning your mistakes and making amends: "I missed that deadline; I'll make sure it doesn't happen again."
  • Keeping information confidential falls under Vault, for example: "I won’t share your feedback without your consent."
  • Integrity means choosing courage over comfort, as in: "We need to address the client’s concerns head-on."
Non-judgment and Generosity

A culture of non-judgment allows team members to share their thoughts and ideas without fear of criticism, fostering trust and encouraging innovation. Generosity involves extending understanding and grace to team members, particularly when they make mistakes. For example, responding with empathy rather than blame when someone misses a target can build trust and improve morale.

  • Practicing Non-judgment ensures others can express themselves freely: "Feel free to share your ideas openly."
  • Generosity involves assuming positive intent: "I know you’re trying your best under these circumstances."

Each of these elements—boundaries, reliability, accountability, vault, integrity, non-judgment, and generosity—contributes to creating an environment where trust can flourish. As you integrate these principles into your leadership practices, you will see improvements in team cohesion and overall performance.

In the upcoming role-play sessions, you will have the opportunity to practice and refine these trust-building strategies, setting the stage for more effective leadership.

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